[Si tu n’comprends pas pourquoi j’écris en Anglais lis ceci]
Though on Day 2 and Day 3 of Blogging 101 we were working behind the scenes (taglines, headers and blogging community). Today (day 4) we’re asked to identify our audience that’s to « publish a post we’d like our ideal audience member to read, and include a new-to-us element (such as an image, photo, tweet, map, pinterest’s pin, video, song, instagram shot…) in it. » Lets get going then.
Considerating the fact that people are not alike and more they aren’t perfect, it’s normal that they do not always get along with each other.
Sometimes the matter may come from their ways of reacting to life’s attacks. I’ve come to realise not everyone stands up for a fight in such a situation, some people may prefer to step aside and wait for the problem to vanish. Though it’s very depressing because I can’t figure out I now know I shouldn’t try to push someone into reacting like me.
Another problem may be their caracters. I guess is normal to feel
upset kind of embarassed when, whenever with someone, he/she gets all the attention because of his/her facility -which you don’t have- of reaching out to people. But I think the better is to admit it and try to see it as a goal to archieve and why not ask for tips and talk about it each other?
Were you aware that difficulties sometimes come our way out of the relationship itself? Mostly when the relation goes older, we stop expressing the love and care of the beginning. And eventually when things aren’t ok it’s « He should notice I’m not fine » or « She should know those words painned me » although it isn’t always the case. Communication is the key. I think the best is still to share your joy, say your pains, express your feelings as you used to, don’t think that the other knows you too well to see it because if he doesn’t you’ll start nourrishing anger torwards him just like that.
I can stay here and name various sources of difficulties people face in their relantionships but I believe sometimes knowing where the problem comes from isn’t worthy. The most important is to ask yourself how much do you value the relationship? For one that you built through years, putting so often your pride aside, why shall you allow something to break it down? Think of your efforts; but more, think of that very person you said you cherrish and realise you just can’t imagine a life without her in it.
Sorry for the mistakes I’m still improving my English</em